Wednesday, May 28, 2014

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Thursday, May 22, 2014

HANDOUT FROM ARMS MTG: Great Articles for the whole family





FOR KIDS: The Rule Review




Re-Post of "5 Mobile Apps That Should Scare the Pants Off Parents"

According to a June 2012 survey conducted by McAfee, more than 70 percent of teens hide their online behavior from their parents. (And some of those who say they don't were probably lying.) Meanwhile, less than one in five parents are aware that their teens are viewing porn, uploading racy photos, or chatting with total strangers.
In fact, the scariest things on the Internet are the messaging, photo sharing, and dating apps you've probably never heard of. Forget Facebook: Here are five of the most troubling Web and mobile apps your teens may be using.
This alternative texting service let your teens chat and swap pictures while bypassing your wireless provider's SMS service. So if you're checking your child's normal texting history for signs of misbehavior, you won't find any. Kik's terms of service ban pornography and nudity, but a search for “kik nudes” offers copious exceptions to these rules. Kik offers a guide for parents, but it's not terribly helpful. If you want to see what your child has been up to on Kik, you'll have to take their smartphone away and launch the app to see for yourself. Other popular alternatext apps include WhatsAppTextNow, and Viber.
Five Mobile Apps That Should Scare the Pants Off Parents
Every day, some 400 million photos are shared via Snapchat; those photos then disappear, as Snapchat has them automatically self-destruct in ten seconds or less. In theory, it's a clever compromise between teenagers' voyeuristic narcissism and parents' desire to not have naked photos of their loved ones flying around the Intertubes. The problem? Apps that let others capture those supposedly temporary images and post them online are now widely available. Snapchat recently began offering a “Stories” feature that lets photos survive for up to 24 hours – offering even more opportunities to harvest images. Not surprisingly, Snapchat imitators (like WireWickr, and Poke) are popping up everywhere.
For the most part, this app serves up endlessly looping six-second videos of cute pets and teens mugging for their smartphone cameras. But it also demonstrates just how much porn one can pack into six seconds. Following an uproar about naked naughty bits when it launched last January, Vine Labs removed the ability to search for adult hashtags like #XXX or #NSFW, but the videos are still there. Worse, anyone can search for teens, follow them, log their locations, leave comments, and try to connect with them via other services.Instagram, which officially bans nudity and sex-related hashtags, isn't much better.
This groundbreaking site lets anyone engage in video chat via webcam with random strangers. Users under 18 are prohibited, as is nudity, but nobody's checking IDs at the door or making sure everyone is wearing pants (trust me, they aren't). And if you do get booted for violating those terms, there are lookalike services (like Omegle, ChatRandom, or DirtyRoulette) with even fewer restrictions.
Hookup apps like Tinder let you scroll through images of other members and flag the ones you like. If they also like you, you're both notified, and then you can contact each other and do what comes naturally. There are dozens of similar apps with names like Blendr, Grindr, Down, Skout, Swoon, and Pure. The problem? While some services require users to be 18 or older (Tinder's minimum age is 13), I've yet to find one that actually verifies anyone's age. Is your little angel hooking up with strangers? It doesn't get any scarier than that.
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What can you do to stop your kids from getting into trouble on these troublesome apps? You may need to activate parental controls on their devices to keep them from installing apps without your approval, or make sure all app purchases go through your account, not theirs.
If they do use these apps, make sure they don't do it unsupervised – no matter how much they kick and scream about it.

7 mobile apps you NEED to know

7 risky mobile apps parents and responsible adults of kids should be aware of:

152841. Yik Yak
What the app does:
From the Yik Yak web site: "Yik Yak acts like a local [chat room] for your area by showing the most recent posts from other users around you. It allows anyone to connect and share information with others without having to know them."
Why it could be risky:
The anonymity of Yik Yak means you and your teen never know who you're talking to on the other side of the screen. This makes cyber-bullying easier, increases chances of predators communicating with your child, and allows for a community where anything goes, including language, sexual innuendo, and hate-driven content.

152852. Gaggle
What the app does:
From the Gaggle App in the iTunes Store: "Gaggle is an anonymous local bulletin board to post messages to the people around you. It is a fast reliable way to share your thoughts, gossip and talk about things around you."
Why it could be risky:
Similar to Yik Yak, Gaggle is completely anonymous and therefore fosters a community without accountability which can lead to sexual or hateful content and extreme language.

What the app does:
From Wikipedia: "Snapchat is a photo messaging app wherein users can take photos, record videos, add text and drawings, and send them to a controlled list of recipients. These sent photographs and videos are known as "Snaps". Users set a time limit for how long recipients can view their Snaps after which they will be hidden from the recipient's device and deleted from Snapchat's servers.
Why it could be risky:
While Snapchat should be commended for their recent strides in making their service less anonymous, more permanent, and more age-friendly, the short-term nature of the app still may be a concern. Because photos, drawings, texts and other content can be deleted immediately after being received, use of the app sometimes leads to sexting, bullying, or sharing inappropriate content.

What the app does:
From the Kik web site: "As the first smartphone messenger with a built-in browser, Kik Messenger lets you talk to your friends and browse and share any web site with your friends on Kik."
Why it could be risky:
The biggest risk that comes with the fact that it's very hard to identify a Kik user. Since usernames are not verified, users can create false accounts and connect with other Kik users. The app also allows teens to send text messages that will not be traced by mobile service providers, that parents can't see, and that cannot be monitored on a monthly phone bill. This leads to excessive texting and opens the possibility to sexting, sharing inappropriate content, and other dangers.

152885. Omegle
What the app does:
From the Omegle web site: "When you use Omegle, we pick someone else at random so you can have a one-on-one chat. You're anonymous unless you tell someone personal info and you can stop a chat at any time."
Why it could be risky:
While Omegle makes small efforts to ensure safety with its app (advising against sharing personal info and a group of moderators) the site tagline, "talk to strangers" is enough to classify this app as risky all on its own.

What the app does:
Whisper allows users to share secrets anonymously and receive replies. Users post messages which are displayed as text superimposed over an image, similar to greeting cards.
Why it could be risky:
Like many other apps covered today, Whisper allows users to be anonymous. In fact, the service is all about sharing "secrets" and encourages a high level of anonymity but also a high level of openness. Users are encouraged to share their secrets with complete strangers. 

What the app does:
Frontline Commando and similar violent games offer realistic war violence as a form of entertainment.
Why it could be risky:
According to a recent study, "Children who play violent video games may experience an increase in aggressive thoughts, which in turn, could boost their aggressive behavior." 



At the end of the day, there's only so much we can do to protect our youth from risky apps on their mobile devices.
Don't ban apps just for the sake of banning apps or you may have a revolution on your hands. 
LDS Living

Here are a few other suggested RED flag sites or apps/games: SEE COMMENTS BELOW TO READ FULL RESPONSES TO WHAT PARENTS/ADULTS HAVE SAID ABOUT THESE APPS/GAMES

-texting apps like PINGER (sldj)
-games like CLASH OF CLANS (bdiggity)
-PINTEREST, YOUTUBE, TUMBLR, TWITTER, REDDIT
-FRANKLY CHAT (allencafe)
-INSTAGRAM (google: "is instagram safe" to read many articles on this)




Comments
9 comments
sldj said...
09:04 AM
on May 20, 2014
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If you don't want your child to have access to the internet, be careful with texting apps also. The popular free texting app Pinger will highlight Buzz words and then allow your child to follow the link to the internet (even when it's blocked.) It's a short hop from there to looking up pornography. We had the internet blocked, deleted apps like Pintrest and You-Tube... in short, we thought we had child proofed the iPod. But we were wrong.
bdiggity said...
10:53 AM
on May 20, 2014
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I learned that some kids' games (like clash of clans) that seem innocent enough, have a chat option where other players can chat with each other. This was on a different screen than the main game so I couldn't see it and was impossible to disable. I wasn't aware of it until my child pointed it out after weeks of playing it. Scary!
trevorh said...
11:06 AM
on May 20, 2014
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Parents should also be aware that pornography can be easily found through Pinterest, YouTube, and Tumblr.
bgtaylor4 said...
06:09 PM
on May 20, 2014
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trevorh alludes to the reality here -- just like the internet/filters and other physical measures both your kids and app providers are going to find work-arounds. The key is and always has been education. Teach correct principles, build trust in our homes and let our children do the right thing. Six of these seven apps are by nature no worse or less safe than most popular apps. The 7th is gaming which shouldn't appeal to any LDS youth -- waste of time, violent and inappropriate. And if not available in your home, can be found somewhere else IF SOUGHT after. Again the key is teaching children to live in the real world where they eventually need to be, not putting them in a bubble.
j8893a said...
08:31 PM
on May 20, 2014
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@bgtaylor4, I think that you are much more in a bubble than anything else. Generalizing by using the word "gaming" as a term to signify "waste of time, violent and inappropriate" shows how narrow minded you are, and that "teaching children to live in the real world" makes me think that you need to step outside of your bubble and realize that the world is ever changing and that your stereotype of "gaming" is highly inconsistent to studies that are being done around the world showing that video games, albeit ones that invoke creativity, can enhance the brain and make you better in various aspects of life.
allencafe said...
09:00 PM
on May 20, 2014
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Frankly Chat is a new one I've discovered, and is very similar to Snap Chat. We have disabled Safari on your kids ipods and replaced it with the McGruff internet browser. It it working pretty well so far. We have some strict rules. As it was mentioned before Pinterest can be an issue too, so keep that in mind. I have become a lot less naive recently. I keep fighting the fight and teaching my kids often.
bgtaylor4 said...
01:46 AM
on May 21, 2014
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j8893a -- I could have/should have written a better sentence beginning with "violent, role playing gaming" in reference to games focused on blowing things up, killing (aliens, bad guys, epic fantasy figures, whatever), emulating reckless behavior... As to real world, it was a reference to the idea that sheltered children, cut-off by force or extreme supervision (including big brother filtering software) eventually meet a world -- either as teens in others' unsupervised or different standard homes or young adults suddenly set loose with free agency rather than having had to opportunity to incrementally learn to make good choices.
trevorh said...
09:00 AM
on May 21, 2014
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Other potentially dangerous but very popular services I forgot to mention are Twitter and Reddit. And yes, there is really nothing you can do to keep your kids safe from these things except teach them to choose the right.
ab1201 said...
01:26 PM
on May 21, 2014
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Instagram! Just Google "is instagram safe" and you'll soon figure out that many things, including pornography, can easily be seen just by clicking on a hashtag. And there's no way a parent can see what their child has seen or searched.